world is not becoming a better place. as a matter of fact, i believe that our generation or the future generation is becoming more and more cynical. well this is just through my observation... i could be wrong, but every conversation i have with friends or acquintances will somehow reflect or lead back to this.
nothing that we say or do, starts with being positive...
we're always upset with something someone says or do... then we criticize them in every possible way...
but i don't know, maybe we're just living in denial, putting blame onto others first before we check with ourselves... our own faults...
there might be a possibility that we are at fault, right? but you know that's usually not the case, its easier to get away with 'murder'... and at the end of the day you could just go home, feel good about your self and sleep happily.
why is that? don't we have anything better to do?
do we really have a lot of time to analyze every single thing that is wrong with them? (well them in general here is referring to individuals, not specific individuals but just individuals in general, capiche?)
maybe its just me, maybe i'm putting too much effort into figuring out why awful things happen. i know they happen for a reason, either to teach us a lesson or others for that matter. but do we really look at things that way? (living in doubt here...)
i guess there's just too many questions remained unaswered.
why do we do things to please others? what kind of self satisfaction do we get? to what extreme would someone do the same for you? why do we do so much to "fit in"? how does that benefit you?
at the end of the day its best to let things happen, and take its course... be it good or bad...
then i guess we'll slowly learn through the hard way... but i guess that's just me, this is how i look at things, we may not be on the same boat on this, but its just my opinion.
maybe i'm being the biggest cynist for now. too many questions, and no concrete answer. maybe you could help me out.
why do we do things that would satisfy others and not benefit us in any possible way? (i know the question is rather selfish, but its just a question that has been lingering in my mind)
like i said, i'm just wondering at the end of the day.
3 comments:
well u know what they say "if you cant beat em' try again later" :P
This blog somehow went straight to my heart. Sighs. I don't know why it happens, but I guess sometimes it's good to blame others than yourself but at the end of the day when you're about to go to the lalaland, you tend to think about what had happened, and you know deep in your heart, somehow, the blame is on you..not the other party. People did this to make themselves feel great. And I am quite sure that everyone at one point in their life will go through such moments. It's life. There's a lot of questions that have no answers. You just gotta live with it and be the best you can be.
:/
hey d, yeah i think you're right... its about temporary satisfaction then... sigh!
*back to wondering*
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